If she’s your girlfriend; the above rules aren’t applicable since you’d already been sexual with her. If you’re bad at it [bad timing], it’d fuck you up and you’ll loose the girl.If you’re half-way decent at it: you’ll be looked at as a sex God by women whom you come in contact with.You can send her the following txt dialogue [straight out of my phone with my girlfriend :)]: GF: “Lol, I don’t know what it is”. Be aware of your surroundings [have Social Intelligence]. [I then gave her a hi5 just to hold her hand a bit to establish KINO] Me: “So what’s in your glass”? With that being said: leave the heavy-dirty sex talk until you’re in person vis-a-vis with the girl.
[I’m inducing some sexual tension which will cause her to blush, flush and engage in the mutual flirting] Me: “Let me taste a piece of you”. Ok guys, that was just a template of how to get sexual over dinner. Me: “If I were at your job right now, I would so fucking crawl under that desk and go to town on your kitty cat”! At the end of the chat, the convo became more vivid as I told her how much I wanted to slide this cock down her throat until she begged for me to stop!
That is how you introduce dirty talking while on a dinner date or any date for that matter. Generally, you can get away with murder when it comes to a girl you’ve already shagged. My crystal ball says that you’re thinking about sex on the beach right now. I’m popping a mean fucking boner just from having a casual chat with you”! It’d be pretty stupid to go up to a girl at the bar and say to her: “You have a nice ass and it’s getting my cock hard”. But for the average Joe reading this, an approach like that will totally crucify you and set off the creepy rape-alert inside the girl’s head.
The key is to start small by insinuating and hinting at sex. A new girl (stranger) for that matter: the awkward factor heightens. Perhaps it’s the cocktail and not actually sex on a beach” ;)! As you become good at this [sexualization], you will then be able to get away with full-blown sex talk from the get-go with random strangers at nightlife settings.
I’ve been there, so I can personally attest to this as being fucking awkward!!! This is where texting comes in pretty handy for starters. Ok, I’ll lay out a scenario of a bar setting and how to initiate sex talk/dirty talk with a stranger chick. [Remember guys: this palm reading exercise of mines is total bullshit and it’s based on nothing but pure freestyling] Me: “I sense that you can be a very sexual person once you meet the right guy who won’t judge you”. Me: “My crystal ball also says that you have no panties on and that you love going commando”. In the past, I was guilty of making this crucial mistake many times where I would meet a girl on Facebook through mutual friends, we hit it off from the start, dirty talk ensues via Facebook chat, we set up a meet up- then she flakes at the last moment.
Let’s say that you’re feeling quite frisky and your GF is currently away at work. : Bars and nightclubs are sexually charged environments where chicks are opened to being hit on and treated as sex objects. But how many guys actually get sexual with strange women at bars? The defining factor between you and the drunk guy is that you’ll be coherent oppose to the drunk guy who lacks coherency and proper calibration. You know what they say about girls who drink Apple Martinis right”? Me: “You’re gonna be really offended by this…[building tension, anticipation and intrigue by pausing]…They say that girls who drink Apple Martinis…are lacking good sex”! If she doesn’t flake, she will flat out make a bunch of excuses as to why we cannot meet up.