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And does rigid adherence in your head to a supposed "preference" (which, as expressed, often sounds more like a rule: "I don't date ") become almost self-fulfilling in practice, to the point of exclusion?Can an employer who will only hire white employees because he or she prefers to work with them, or a landlord who will only rent to white tenants because he or she prefers to live with them, use "preference" as a loophole to sidestep charges of racism? Why, then, do people think the rules of racism don't apply to them when they're eliminating entire continents from their romantic prospects based entirely on ethnicity and race?

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If you can't, or won't, think outside boxes and beyond ethnicities, at least be courageous enough to face the uncomfortable implications of your color vision.

"Jeremy, I think I might be racist: I'm just not attracted to Asian men," a German friend in Berlin once confided in me, earning my respect, if not a free pass. This applies equally to so-called "chocolate queens" and "rice queens" and "queens" who shun white men.

He hadn't said, "I would never date or sleep with an Asian guy" (though I'm sure he would have, had I probed).

He'd simply made a blanket statement regarding sexual attraction based on race, which was in the same neighborhood but on a different street.

This was exactly Nolan's response when I suggested that his attitude reeked of racism.

Like so many men with the no-Asians dating and hooking-up policies, Nolan hid behind the old "That's just my preference" excuse.

Shoving them into one box of physical attributes and labeling it "Do not touch" is tantamount to saying that all black people look alike.

Sure, we have no control over what we're attracted to, but we can control whether we see people as individuals or merely as belonging to groups that are determined by ethnicity and race.

Furthermore, no matter how people want to spin it, rejection for being of a certain race stings so much more than being overlooked because of your hair or eye color, or even your gender.

When I carefully considered Nolan's words, though, I had to give him a little credit.

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