His classes aren’t real because they are not what he told him to study. The son is hard pressed to find any moral support or love from his father. They are only capable of recognizing what makes them look good or places them in the spotlight. He asked her why she dropped out of university and why she had so many tattoos.Every decision they make is questioned by the Narc father.Every dream, idea or hint of independent thought is dismissed by the Narc father if it does not abide by his ideals.If you have asked for the divorce you can bet their wrath will be focused on you.So what begins as a type of possession can escalate into a destructive pattern of parental alienation.What happens to grown children of the narcissistic father during and after divorce?This is important to consider because after you’ve left the Narcissist far behind and relieved yourself of the pain, your children continue to deal with him. As the healthy parent, understanding the Narcissist, knowing what to expect and providing tips for the children will lessen the pain for everyone.He requires his children to worship him.” During a divorce, co-parenting with a narcissist can be dangerous.They will go to great lengths to possess the children.If you are unsure about the personality type of your ex read this article from Divorced Moms and take the quiz.Mothers can also be narcissistic but I am focusing on the fathers in this post.