if you’re the sort of person who thrives on crowds.But what if you’re the sort of person who’s drained by crowds or just doesn’t having to introduce themselves and have to make the same small-talk over and over again?
Still waters run deep, after all and there’s no reason why you can’t make that work for you.
A little bit of mystery and a reputation for being observant and clever – if a little reserved – can work wonders.
2 View All Next »I give a lot of advice on going out and meeting people that involves going out and being as social as possible, which is great if you’re naturally an outgoing person (or willing to fake it).
Sure, it’s relatively simple to meet strangers at parties and bars…
Someone who’s Obviously, like many things, introversion and extroversion tend to fall on a sliding scale.
Some people are just the quiet type who tend to be quiet and not speak unless they have something specific to contribute, while others are dedicated loners who’d rather avoid people as much as possible. but it can also be seen as “reserve”, the “strong, silent type” or even appealingly hidden depths.
Rather than asking to be set up on a blind date or trying to force yourself to be more outgoing at a party, try letting your friends know you’re interested in meeting some new people…
so maybe they could bring another person or two they think you might get along with the next time you all go to the movies or have a Game of Thrones marathon.
If you’re not the sort of person who likes small talk or approaching strangers, what are your best options?
Well, the best places are ones that not only benefit your temperament and play to your strengths…