Welcome to Understanding the Opposite Sex 101, dude.
Says the original author:“I would be lying if I said it didn’t get to me.
I thought it would be some fun thing, something where I would do it and worse case scenario say “lol I was a guy I trolled you lulz”, etc.
Hell, I just gave a TEDx talk about this very thing.
Men scramble to approach women like rats chewing on a meaty chicken bone, and then wonder why women are so turned off by them.