It also leads to an overwhelming feeling of The same kinds of problems keep presenting themselves over and over again.
It’s difficult to understand how you can have discussions around a problem, think that you are being understood, and still the same problem persists.
However, this kind of excitement diminishes over time, along with the adrenaline rush, as the ADD spouse looks elsewhere for stimulation.
Of course this is not conscious on his or her part, and he may not even be aware that this has happened.
Everybody deserves to love and be loved, including people with behavior problems like attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).
Its symptoms include above-than-normal levels of inattention, hyperactivity, and implusivity.
Since they probably aren’t even aware that they have changed so much toward you, they really don’t understand why you are always so angry and demanding.
Your increasing frustration, anger and demands only further damage any chances of communication or intimacy, as the ADD partner feels that he or she can never please you and that, who they are, is not enough.
Friends can help – If you have difficulty discussing about yourself, ask some friends on how they would describe you.
Put their feedback on your profile, starting with “My friends would describe me as…” It is OK to be shy – If you are really shy, say you are so.