If you want to date her, you will have to be understanding of her mood swings.
But if you’re also looking for a partner who is caring and compassionate, you’ve found her.
The good news is, you usually have all the time in the world. He's not going anywhere, so start taking some notes. He's not effusive and poetic, like some other signs are. Let's just say in bed, he's a uniquely Cancer combination of commitment, a good memory and a deep desire to please. For all these pluses, there are still going to be fights, and fighting a Cancer guy is not fun.
As you adjust to your role as a girlfriend to a Cancer, you'll no longer feel like you're just treading water. They are sulky when hurt, withdrawing into their shells to lick their wounds.
This is because Cancer guys are sensitive and practically rejection-phobic.
They hate failure, so if you turn him down or string him along, a Cancer guy is going to brood over that for a while.You’ll notice the way she listens to you when you talk, completely engrossed in what you’re saying as if you’re the only person in the room.Reciprocate that level of attention and she will appreciate your intent.You’ll soon learn that the Cancer lady puts in tireless effort to keep in touch with people and make them feel special in ways that not many other people do.So listen to her when she talks, and remember the little things she says. Did she talk about liking certain foods, movies, shows, bands, etc.?I told her I needed more time to think of him as a potential boyfriend. He didn't try to make plans with me or even text me for four months afterward. Reject them once, and they'll retreat into their shell.And it's a ton of work to coax them back out after that.Take her to a favorite place of hers and she will be thrilled you remembered.Just be prepared to receive great gifts from her in return, because she will learn your every like and dislike and store it in her memory banks.There were many times in the beginning of my relationship where I swore I was doing the whole girlfriend thing wrong.I'd want to surprise my boyfriend with a milk shake from Chick-fil-A, only to embarrassingly discover at the counter that I actually didn't know what his favorite kind was.